Cuckolds & the Swingers Lifestyle
Cuckolds & The Swingers Lifestyle
Cuckolding has become very popular over the years and is one of the fastest rising alternative lifestyles. Cuckold or Cuckolding is when a husband allows his hotwife to pick and choose who she has sex with while he stays faithful. She will usually choose a well-hung man, a cuckold bull, or a swinger bull to satisfy her sexually. This type of relationship is often based on trust, intimacy and loyalty.
There are two major types of cuckolds: submissive and voyeurs. In a submissive cuckold lifestyle, the husband achieves sexual satisfaction by seeing how much more the ‘bull’ is superior to him in bed. While voyeur cuckolds simply find pleasure by watching his wife with another man.
Contrary to common opinions, cuckolding has a lot of surprising benefits to couples. The lifestyle can be difficult, but if carried out properly, can strengthen the bond between couples. Here are some tips on how to make the most out of a cuckold relationship in the swingers lifestyle:
- Do It Right: Couples successfully engaging in cuckolding are married couples who share a level of trust, intimacy and loyalty for each other. The practice is never a good idea if the relationship is already having problems or if there are deep-seated trust issues that needs to be addressed. After a couple decides if this type of relationship is right for them, then rules and boundaries they can both live with should be established.
- Loyalty: Cuckold couples are loyal to one another and view this type of lifestyle as a normal, healthy sexual fetish — not something that will damage the lives of those who take part. Participants need to have a certain level of self-esteem and confidence to be secure in differentiating between the sexual act and any emotional aspect of the practice. During or after the cuckolding has taken place, there should be no feelings of betrayal or guilt.
- Safety: Couples looking for a swinger bull will need to choose a third party that they can trust. This could be someone they know or someone they met on a swinger’s website of like-minded individuals who enjoys threesomes and foursomes. It’s advisable that all parties involved discuss any rules and other boundaries the couple may have in place.
- Have Fun: Cuckold couples should see their relationship as one that is sexually varied and open to experimentation, rather than one that is sinful or shameful. It’s better to equate the practice to a hobby or interest rather than a chore.
Communication is a very important aspect of any cuckolding relationship and all issues need to be addressed before anything develops. With this lifestyle, there are a number of foundations on which the relationship should be based…trust, loyalty and devotion take precedence over any sexual act.
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