A Lustery Guide to Naughty Squirting 1
A Lustery Guide to Naughty Squirting
Lay down a towel, get comfy and read on for a lustery guide to naughty squirting tips from the pros, including Lustery couple Boris and Nicole.
Mega-hot couple Boris and Nicole’s latest vlog has caused something of a splash over here on Lustery – literally! This time they’ve got some sex education thrown in with their eroticism as they explain how they squirt in A Lustery Guide to Naughty Squirting.
Squirting is the act of expelling fluid from the urethra – sometimes with force, and other times very subtly – usually as a result of stimulation of the G-spot (also called the female prostate). Squirting is different from an orgasm though. An orgasm is the point of climax during sexual arousal. The most common physical pleasure points that indicate this are in the genitals and, for some people, throughout the body. Ejaculation, on the other hand, is a bodily experience that expels a thick, whitish liquid from the vulva and this can happen before, during, after or without orgasm.
What is the G-spot?
Today, the G-spot is considered to be more of a ‘zone’ (rather than a pinpointed spot) through which the Skene’s glands can be massaged, along with the inner, hidden parts of the clitoris. And we now know that the clit is actually like an iceberg: the hood and head that can be seen on the outside of the body are simply the tip of a much larger organ that extends downward around the vaginal passage.
The G-spot is generally located between three to eight centimeters inside the inner wall of the vagina, towards the navel. To find the G-spot, you can slide two (or one) fingers inside with your palm facing upwards. Don’t feel discouraged if you struggle to reach it alone – the angle can be tricky, so ask your partner to lend a hand.
What is squirt anyway?
In the book The G-Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality, the authors set about to investigate what the liquid released during squirting actually is. A summary of their conclusions: “This study presents evidence that squirting in women is chemically similar to urine, and also contains small amounts of PSA (prostate specific antigen), which is present in the ejaculate of both men and women.”
We also know that there is a difference in terms of color, odor, chemical components, and volume. So, in short, squirt contains pee, but isn’t completely pee as it is differentiated by the presence of PSA.
What are tips and techniques to help me squirt?
It can be hard to reach your G-spot area alone but it’s not impossible! Both alone or with a partner, you want to be relaxed, in a comfortable place and with time to be curious and explore.
Some people prefer to investigate with their own bodies autonomously because they feel less pressured. It can also make it easier to focus exclusively on what you are feeling. There are some specific positions that might help to stimulate your G-spot on your own: if you are lying on your back, try placing a pillow under your butt for leverage; getting on your knees leaning forward and/or squatting are also good options.
When you use your fingers you should apply a firm pressure, trying curling them to make a “come hither” motion. If you still can’t quite get to it, a curved or S-shaped sex toy should help you. In all cases, try to keep to a rhythm and keep the pressure firm but not excessive.
THERE ARE SOME SPECIFIC POSITIONS THAT MIGHT HELP TO STIMULATE YOUR G-SPOT ON YOUR OWN: IF YOU ARE LYING ON YOUR BACK, TRY PLACING A PILLOW UNDER YOUR BUTT FOR LEVERAGE…
For others, it’s easier when they are being touched by someone else (just ask Boris and Nicole) – in this case share the tips we just mentioned with your partner to help them know where to stimulate you. Since many penises or dildos don’t make this kind of motion of “come here”, it’s not always a reliable to try to stimulate the G-spot through penetrative sex.
Some people have found that shallower penetration could help, or positions such as doggy (where the receiving person is on their belly with their butt up) or spooning. This can be a tricky way to try to learn to squirt, so I encourage self-exploration first, and exploration with hands (your own or your partner’s) or a flexible toy.
Still not squirting?
Give yourself time. Not every moment is a squirt moment. This doesn’t mean you will never be able to squirt – maybe there is something in the formula that’s not working (time, body condition, pressure, angle, etc.). Think about it as learning any new skill. What do you need to make that skill stick? Practice, patience and persistence.
As I mentioned before, being comfortable is key. Try masturbating and having an orgasm before. Even if you don’t have an orgasm, just touching yourself and turning yourself on… Your body has to be turned on to squirt. Not just physically but mentally.
Peeing beforehand is also a good idea, especially because when you feel aroused enough, with the right amount of pressure, you might feel the need to squirt as similar to an urge to pee. With time, you can come to perceive the difference between these two feelings, but at the beginning, you can rely on your bladder already being already empty and just relax and enjoy when the squirt comes.
Letting go, opening up and releasing yourself is important to allow it to happen. It’s very hard to do so when you feel pressured, unsure or having big expectations! So, make sure to enjoy the ride, no matter where it takes you.
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